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LoveQuiltsUK - Rueben's quilt

Rueben's quilt    (Quilt Closed)

Illness: Subacute infarcts (brain injury)

Theme: Lions, dinosaurs, pandas and bunnies

Date opened: 10th Apr 2021
Date closed: 11th Apr 2021
Deadline: 26th Aug 2021

Photo of Rueben

Theme details

Lions, dinosaurs, pandas and bunnies - A good mixture of each please :)

Child Interests

Rueben loves dinosaurs, Paw Patrol and Raa Raa the noisy little lion. He loves to do Row row the boat gently down the stream and peek a boo. He also loved cuddles. He doesn’t have a favourite colour but he loves bright rainbow colours. Yellow, green, red, orange, blue.


Rueben was a happy and healthy little boy and met all of his milestones from being born. He never was a sick baby and I never had any concern about him but only shortly into the new year of 2021 our lives got flipped upside down and I feared I would no longer have my baby with me.

Rueben was intubated at the end of January after rapid swelling of the neck, head and throat and a cut on his lip which hadn’t healed within 5 days but was getting worse and starting to go necrotic. A CT scan confirmed that Rueben had a swollen lymph node and blood tests confirmed that he had sepsis, streptococcus and staphylococcus and he had no immune system. A bone marrow test was carried out and Rueben was diagnosed with acute lymphoblastic leukaemia. The next day another bone marrow test was carried out and also a lumbar puncture and a chemotherapy plan was set into place and signed for. The haematologists came back and said the findings of the second bone marrow test showed that the leukaemia was improving on its own. They contacted a leading consultant at Great Ormond Street and he said he’d seen a small minority of cases the same. He said that Rueben’s leukaemia has gone into spontaneous remission but suspects the leukaemia will return and need treating in a time period of anything up to a year.

After 10 days intubated Rueben was finally woken up but over the next 2 days he showed facial weakness and couldn’t move or hold his head up. He went for an MRI which confirmed an injury to the brain suspected to have been caused by sepsis. This would likely affect the left side of his body and could cause him to become stiff in his left leg or arm. A few days later Rueben had a significant bleed from his throat and was rushed to theatre. Surgeons found disturbed and angry tissue in his throat and behind his nose which couldn’t be explained. This happened again the following week but that time they found that the tissue in his neck was going necrotic. The following day they carried out an MRI scan to find out the extent of the tissue damage and they also repeated a bone marrow test to make sure the leukaemia hadn’t returned. Tests showed that the tissue damage wasn’t as significant as they had thought and a long term antibiotic plan was put into place. The leukaemia was still thankfully in remission and he was then taken to theatre for a peg fitting so nothing was disturbing his throat so it could heal. He then had a portacath put in for his long term antibiotics and also for the use of chemotherapy in the future.

Rueben started to progress massively and made a huge recovery, more than what doctors ever thought. In just 2 months we were set a discharge day for mid March but we were officially discharged a few days later due to Rueben developing a rash due to an allergic reaction to one of the antibiotics.

Now we are home Rueben has weekly blood tests and checkups at the hospital and wait for the leukaemia to return. He will then be transferred back over to the Children’s Hospital for chemotherapy and a 3 and a half year treatment plan.

Rueben has 6 weekly follow ups with ENT, Neurology, Ophthalmology and Plastics and has 4 weekly visits to see his haematologist. He’s working closely with speech and language, physio and the occupational therapist to work on his speech, eating and drinking, small and big movements. Our aim is to get through the summer and his second birthday before needing treatment.


1.Stitcher: Louise Mackin , Tamworth , UK

2.Stitcher: Leanne Malcolmson, Romsey, UK

3.Endagered Young'uns - Pandas A pair of Panda cubsStitcher: Sharon, Kenilworth, UK

4.Stoney creek collection protected babies PandaStitcher: Shelli Rippetoe, USA
In Progress
n/a Monochrome lion head Stitcher: Jenny Elkington, Boston, UK

6.RSPCA pets, Rosie the rabbit from a magazine Grey and white rabbitStitcher: Karen Stephenson, Cambridgeshire, UK
In Progress

7.From etsy Climbing goat designs triceratops in blue and green Stitcher: Amelia Heaford, London, UK
In Progress

8.Large dinosaur shape made up of small dinosaurs. Will stitch in a variety of bright colours.Stitcher: Emma Swift, Aberdeen, UK

9.Awesome pattern studio Etsy Mandala lionStitcher: Nicola Dove, Barnsley, UK
In Progress

10.Durene Jones Free Cross Stitch on Facebook. Cute Panda.Stitcher: Nisha Chauhan, Leicester, UK

11.Climbing goat baby bunny repeated with different colour for each rabbit Stitcher: Erin, Neath, Wales
In Progress

12.Label Stitcher: Jean, Buckinghamshire, England
In Progress

Squares received

Cross stitch square for Rueben's quilt
Stitched by: Louise Mackin
Submitted: Sep 2020

Cross stitch square for Rueben's quilt
Stitched by: Leanne Malcolmson
Submitted: Apr 2021

Cross stitch square for Rueben's quilt
Stitched by: Sharon
Submitted: Jun 2021

Cross stitch square for Rueben's quilt
Stitched by: Jenny Elkington
Submitted: May 2021

Cross stitch square for Rueben's quilt
Stitched by: Emma Swift
Submitted: Jul 2021

Cross stitch square for Rueben's quilt
Stitched by: Nisha Chauhan
Submitted: Jul 2021


Card for Rueben
Stitched by: Jodie Balaam

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